STEP ONE – PREPARATION
Whether you’re trying to improve a relationship, make a career change, start a new business, or heal from traumatic life events, it requires taking the necessary steps towards that end. You must look at the big picture and decide what changes you are willing to make in reaching your goals. Mentally concentrate your thoughts on the person you’d like to become, and create a clear and concise image of what that person looks like. Describe in great detail what your goals and objectives entail, develop the self-confidence needed to accomplish your tasks, and never stop trying until you’ve developed the right formula to manifest your intentions.
STEP TWO – ACCOUNTABILITY
Once you’ve determined the direction you’d like to take you must commit to the process. When obstacles get in your way be receptive and open to lean on a trusted friend, family member, or Life Coach for guidance and motivation. Your personal social support system can be very beneficial by keeping you inspired and focused on your goals by providing the emotional support needed during stressful periods, redirecting you when you’ve gotten off track, and essentially keeping you grounded. Spend a little time each day meditating on attracting people, circumstances, and forces into your life that will help you on this journey. Networking and forming coalitions or think-tanks will help you believe in your own abilities, enhance your knowledge-base, and increase the likelihood of success.
STEP THREE – PURSUIT
Now it’s time to take action steps, making a giant leap of faith into the unknown with certainty of positive outcomes. Move forward with confidence, integrity and optimism; believing in yourself will cause others to believe in your competence also. Pursue your desires with all vigor, concentrating on the end-game, which is true success. Remember, anything you persistently focus on will be eventually explicitly expressed in some practical form, so continuously visualize who you want to become, how you will feel when it happens, and what steps you will take to actualize your aspirations no matter how long it may take.