Finding the strength to survive infidelity is a grueling task all in itself, but to overcome the moment requires something that most people aren't willing to give initially...FORGIVENESS. I can help you both come to terms with the devastation of infidelity, recover from it through the art of forgiveness, and heal your relationship by strengthening it unlike never before. When your trust has been broken in the relationship it will require special attention and commitment to reconnect with your partner. Taking a quick inventory of why you chose your partner in the first place, and examining where you are now will help to move forward.
Answer the following questions:
What initially attracted you to your partner?
What are the things you like most about your relationship?
What are your sources of pleasure as a couple?
What are the top (3) things you wish to change in your relationship?
When do you feel most frustrated in your relationship?
In what important ways are the two of you similar? Different? What do the two of you share in common?
What is the percentage that you’re committed to staying in your relationship?
What traits do you appreciate in your partner?
What traits do you think your partner appreciates in you?
Do you feel supported by your partner? If so, how and when?
Do you feel that you provide your partner with support or encouragement? How?
What do you need from your partner today to feel safe and secure in the relationship?
If you'd like to restore your relationship to optimal level I invite you to schedule a couples therapy session with me at www.RiseTherapy.org.